"Ravana’s rage separated Sita from Ram. Ayodhya’s gossip separated Ram from Sita but Hanuman’s tongue will never separate Ram from Sita."
The Overview
Most of us are familiar with the story of the epic
Ramayana. The Prince of Ayodhya Ram’s wife Sita is abducted by Ravana the King
of the unknown faraway island Lanka while he’s living in the forest in exile.It’s a story of a faithful husband saving his wife from the clutches of an
unruly King. It seems as if Ramayana ‘the epic’ was written keeping in mind
that it had to be on the zenith of perfection nothing more - nothing less.
Ram & Sita
Ram is synonymous to culture and Sita is synonymous
to nature. Ram is the one who will uphold all rules and regulations to govern
the society, to keep everything and everyone in the boundary but Sita has no
boundary, she’s the nature herself. Their characters are in juxtaposition to
each other, their lives are like parallels with a few rendezvous.
The Beauty of the text
The beauty of the text lies in the way it scrutinizes matters relevant then and now. Author effortlessly questions the social values, jati, varna, thoughts, judgement, notions of chastity and fidelity in the book
1.)Why does purity matter so much?
2.)Why do we always try to establish a nexus between a woman’s body and purity?
3.)Wasn’t purity since the beginning about being pure and avoiding sin?
4.)Why the victim in the story was considered a sinner and asked to prove her purity and chastity?
5.)How many times do you ask a woman to prove her loyalty?
6.)Why shouldn’t we give women the same choices as the man in the society gets?
Not once, not twice but thrice. If this happens to a Goddess, we all know what women in our societies have been through countless centuries.
Sita
As a reader, I loved the protagonist Sita’s role as
a single mother the way she teaches her children to accept and appreciate the
difference by saying.."All trees in the Forrest are unique and all trees are
valid." Her role as a dutiful daughter and faithful wife sets a benchmark in
the society. The mighty endurance of Sita creates a paradigm of an ideal woman
in our society.
Ram
Heavy is the head that wears the crown..Ram the
husband suffers his entire life, separated from his wife while Ram the King
triumphed in serving the people of Ayodhya. In the end,Ram the husband’ walked
into the river Sarayu ..chanting her name.
Hanuman
"Ravana’s rage separated Sita from Ram. Ayodhya’s
gossip separated Ram from Sita but Hanuman’s tongue will never separate Ram from
Sita". ( favorite lines from the book) If you ever want to find a more loyal
confidant,friend,subordinate and devotee than Hanuman in Indian Mythology, I am
sure you will fail because Hanuman in all the epics, myth, tales and folklore
is just irreplaceable and unmatchable.
Ravana
I always thought Ravana was the evil in Sita’s life turns out the people of her city had surpassed Ravana in tormenting her.I loved reading Sita, I immersed in it. Readers do give it a shot as it is one of the best books written on Ramayana from the perspective of Sita.
- Meenakshi Sinha ( An Avid Reader )
The objectives of the book has been very well summarised especially from Sita's perpective.
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DeleteGreat review. Devdutt Pattnaik has also helped in making of serial 'Siya ke Ram' and his ideology is evident throughout the series. This book is now in my bucket list.
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DeleteWhen I was a child, Ramayana really made me celebrate all characters and the least celebrated and thought of was the character of sita. But now I realize how her character was an epitome of perfection and how she was wronged by everyone, even her husband at the end. She deserved better.
ReplyDeleteYes,wronged by many..she set a higher benchmark of endurance...higher than any other mythological character.
DeleteThe way you described the charcters is beautiful!
DeleteLooking forward to read the book very soon.
Thank you Meenakshi.
The way you described the charcters is beautiful!
DeleteLooking forward to read the book very soon.
Thank you Meenakshi.
Thanks Kushagra!!☘
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